Ten honest questions. No right or wrong answers — only honest ones. This assessment helps determine where you are and what your best next step looks like.
When you're honest with yourself at the end of the day, how do you feel about the life you've built?
Set aside what it looks like to everyone else. This is just between you and the page.
How central is your faith to how you actually make decisions — not just how you'd describe yourself to others?
Think about the last major decision you made. How much did your faith actually drive it?
Your wife (or the people closest to you) — if they were being fully honest, what would they say about the gap between the man you are at work and the man you are at home?
This one might sting a little. That's the point.
When you feel out of control or overwhelmed, what do you typically do with that feeling?
Be specific. Think about the last time you felt it.
If you remove income as a measure of success, what else tells you that this year mattered?
Take 10 seconds before you answer. Don't reach for the polished version.
Have you ever been in a room — a real room, not a podcast — with other men who were being completely honest about their struggles?
Not a surface-level men's group. The kind where people say the thing they don't say anywhere else.
When you think about the word "legacy" — what do you actually want yours to be?
Not the LinkedIn version. What do you want the people who know you best to say after you're gone?
How willing are you to be challenged — not coached gently, but genuinely challenged on the stories you've been telling yourself?
This work requires honesty that most men avoid. Where are you with that?
Is there something — a specific person, a chapter of your past, a decision you made — that you haven't fully made peace with?
Something that still has weight when it comes to mind. You don't need to name it here. Just notice if it's there.
What would it actually mean to you — to your marriage, your kids, your faith — if you closed the gap between who you are and who you know you're capable of being?
Don't minimize this one. Sit with it for a moment before you answer.
Your answers reflect a man who has built real success — and who is honest enough to admit it hasn't been enough. That honesty is the only foundation anything real can be built on.
You are exactly the man the BILD coaching system was designed for. You feel the gap. You're not hiding from it. And you're willing to do the real work — not the comfortable kind, but the kind that actually changes things.
The next step is a conversation. A complimentary discovery session with Jeff — no pitch, no pressure. Just an honest conversation about where you are and whether this is the right fit.
"The ones who break through are the ones who get honest, find one small act of true accountability, and start there."
Enter your name and email and Jeff will send you a personal message based on how you answered — along with your recommended next step.
Jeff's personal note is headed to your inbox. Check your email — and check spam if you don't see it within a few minutes.
No spam. No lists. Just Jeff's honest response to your results.
Your answers suggest you may be earlier in the journey — or that some of the questions didn't fully land yet. That's not a problem. It's useful information.
The BILD Five Pillars are designed for exactly this moment. Before a man is ready for intensive coaching work, there's a foundation to understand — the patterns that keep successful men stuck, the difference between public and private accountability, and what it actually means to build with God instead of asking for blessing after the fact.
The pillars are free, honest, and built to meet you where you are. Work through them at your own pace. Most men find that by Pillar 2 or 3, something starts to shift — and the questions from this assessment start to land differently.
"Purpose doesn't need to be created from scratch. In almost every man it is already there — covered by urgency, obligation, and the accumulated weight of the life he built trying to be enough."
Enter your name and email and Jeff will send you a personal message based on how you answered — along with your recommended next step.
Jeff's personal note is headed to your inbox. Check your email — and check spam if you don't see it within a few minutes.
No spam. No lists. Just Jeff's honest response to your results.