A smaller, more accessible version of the BILD retreat experience — without the flight to Mexico. Intensive. Intimate. Built for the man who is ready to do real work with other serious men.
The BILD Day Retreats were designed for the man who knows he needs this work but can't commit to four days in Mexico right now. Same depth. Same honesty. Same brotherhood. Compressed into a Thursday-Saturday format that busy men can actually protect on their calendars.
These are not conferences. There are no speakers presenting from a stage. There is Jeff Boyer, a small group of serious men, the Six Pillar curriculum, and two full days to go further than most men go in a year of self-improvement content.
Two locations. Two different groups. The same standard.
This retreat is hosted at Jeff Boyer's home in Temecula wine country. Not a conference center. Not a rented ballroom. Jeff's actual home — where the rolling hills, the quiet, and the space to breathe create exactly the kind of environment where honest work gets done. This is the first BILD Day Retreat. It will be small, intentional, and unlike anything most men have experienced.
The Dallas retreat is in development. Same format, same depth, same standard — built for the men in Texas and the surrounding region who are ready to do this work without a cross-country flight. Date and details coming soon.
Every hour is intentional. There is deep work and there is space. There is group intensity and private reflection. The format is designed so that men who can only give 2.5 days still walk away with real shifts — not just inspiration.
Every workshop and group session with Jeff — Powerlessness, Accountability, Purpose, Forgiveness, Create With Him, and Imagination.
Thursday welcome dinner, Friday breakfast through dinner, Saturday breakfast and lunch. The table is where brotherhood builds.
The Friday afternoon physical and collaborative challenge — designed to get men out of their heads and into their bodies together.
Shipped to your door before the event — BILD hoodie, journal, and materials to prepare you for the work before you arrive.
The men you meet at this retreat stay with you. Priority access to The Rare Ones men's group after the event.
Jeff personally follows up with every attendee 30 days after. The work that surfaces at the retreat needs time to land.
The full BILD Day Retreat experience is valued at $1,499. For this first Temecula retreat, Jeff is opening 20 spots at a founding rate — because he wants the right men in the room more than he wants the margin.
Fill out the short application. Jeff reads every one personally. If it's the right fit, he'll reach out to confirm your spot and next steps.
Submit Your Application →Not every application results in an invitation. This retreat is for the man who is ready — not the man who is curious.
The BILD Day Retreats are the entry point. The men who come to Temecula or Dallas and experience what this work can do often find themselves asking about Los Barriles — the full 4-day experience in Baja California, Mexico. If that's on your heart, it's worth knowing about.
Learn About Los Barriles →